When we started talking about this, the thing we kept coming back to was how ordinary the problem is. Nobody in our school set out to make a new classmate feel like an outsider. It happened in small ways, in the space where nobody had taught anyone better.
We think that space is fillable. A single class period changes how a twelve-year-old hears a joke. A standing Tuesday hour changes how someone feels about answering the phone at work.
If you run a classroom, a business, or an hour of free time each week, there is a version of this you can help with. We would like to hear from you.